End of the Semester Thoughts
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
With almost two years of college under my belt, I have
learned a lot about myself, the people I surround myself with and life in general. I’m big on reflection and looking back on the
past two years really helps me realize what is important and all the lessons I
have learned. Here are some of the more
important realizations.
- Don’t stress over everything. It wouldn’t be college if you didn’t have at least three papers and a group project all due within the same week. It’s stressful, there’s no doubt about it. It’s easy to find ourselves crumpled in a ball, lying in our beds, near in tears thinking about all we have to accomplish in such short time. Instead of worrying over everything, it’s best to take a step back, take some deep breaths and focus. Makes lists and you will conquer. Write down all that needs to be done and rank it by order of importance or what is due first. Blare your favorite focus music and just get it done. The less time you spend worrying and the more time you spending doing, the happier you will become.
- The power of a good workout goes a long way. When you do find yourself stressed to no end, take an hour to go to the gym. Hop on the elliptical or run out your frustrations. With power music blasting through your headphones, only focus on the now. Let your mind and body be encompassed in the workout. When you’re done you will feel dead tired, yet rejuvenated and less stressed out.
- We all make stupid mistake but realize it is ok, it happens. Learn from these mistakes so that they don’t happen again. They can be the most important lessons.
- Surround yourself with the best people for you. If you are a negative person, don’t hang out with people that are only going to bring you down. You need friends that will show you positivity and bring out the best in you.
- Realize you are your own source of happiness. Stop with the negative thoughts. It can be really hard, but a positive outlook goes such a long way. If someone is dragging you down, let go of them. You don’t need negativity in your life.
- It’s okay to want to drink away your sorrows. Sometimes it feels like the best escape seems to be forgetting the world by sharing more than a few shots with your friends. It’s ok to escape stress by drinking your problems away with your friends as long you as remain responsible. Don’t be afraid to have fun as long as you know when to quit while you’re ahead.
- Be independent. Go out and join new clubs or activities by yourself. You don’t need to be with your friends 24/7. You would be amazed at all the people you can meet when you’re not constantly with your friends. Don’t be afraid to meet new people. A potential new friend is always near.
I I guess that's all for now!
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